Pass the test
Have the determined mindset that you will not allow a hardship of character and the questioning of it by another pass you by until you have done the self reflection and sitting with what they have placed before you about yourself. Sit with it, mull it over, chew on it, stare at it, think on it, and wait for the Word of God and the Spirit of God with love to put his finger on it and say, “This. I will set you free from it if you agree to what this is.” God will face you with the same reality again and again until you accept it, and he will not bring another unless it too will bring you back to this one you have not accepted. Your world will become new and real, as you accept each Reality God confronts your Unreality with.